Twins and happiness Imagine two (non identical) twins who were separated as they were babies. They have the same IQ. One of them lets call him Adam, has led a complete life. He was good looking, everybody liked him, he was football star in highschool, good in math, dated all the girls he wanted. Partied hard. Got a great job later, money, family, many children, health. Loved by his whole family. Friends. You get the picture. Second twin Peter, rather weak and not too handsome, been made fun of in school. Bad at sports. With his idiotic job can hardly afford the cheapest car. Hardly any friends, virgin, bad health and so on. Now both of them are 80. For many years now Adam feels empty, doesnt know what he wants, is afraid of death, is depressed and sad. Peter has always been at ease, confident, optimistic and cheerfull. Now the question is, which one would you rather be?