So, have you everâ€¦ ...done that thing where you are with your friends and you go â€˜wow look at that ***â€™ (butt) only to have the *** turn around and it be the same sex? There are 2 possible out comes to this situation. One is that your friends agree with you before (s)he turns around. This is the good situation because you can play it off as â€˜man I got you, you so thought that was a girlâ€™, or everyone just silently agrees to never mention it again. The bad situation is that you say it and your friends go â€˜dude thatâ€™s a guy whatâ€™s wrong with you?â€™, and you never live it down. So have you are anything similar?