Should I go for it? So here's the thing.I've been friends with this girl for like....4-5 years.We are all part of a group of friends that split up after high school and scattered all over the world.We met in Paris,right now she lives in New York,and I live in Nevada.Now the thing is,I want to ask her out,but I don't know if I should or not,considering that it might ruin the friendship.Thing is that we get along so well that I don't think asking and being refused would be anything more than a bump on the road.This girl has been on my mind for like the last 2 years.I can't stop thinking about her no matter how hard I try.We both connect well,we both have the same interests (she likes to play videogames for gods sake!And she can discuss porn with me without grossing out!She is definition of perfect!) and I just find her to be so sweet,funny and pretty. Now here's where it gets complicated.She used to be my best friends girl.Whole thing is confusing so I'll do my best to explain it.They started near the end of 9th grade.Thing is that my best friend was pretty poor,so at the end of 9th grade he had to move back to Venezuala as his family could no longer support him staying in Paris.Thus he had to break up with her.However,over the summer in Venezuala he managed to convince his family members to let him continue to go to paris.He came back in 10th grade,but the girl didn't want to continue the relationship anymore.Don't ask me why she decided not to go out with him again,I have no idea.Anyway,my best friend was pretty much depressed for the entire year,then he started going out with another girl and seemed to get over his last one.Right now he's studying in Paris. So do you think I should ask the girl out?I might be moving to the east coast next year so incase we do start going out,we'll be closer.Problem is that I don't know if she feels the same way as I do,but I really don't want to spend my life wondering if she did. Your thoughts?