I went through this very same problem with my girlfriend about a week ago. I used to buy her everything she wanted. I was living with her in her parents house until the end of my teen years, making good money as a supervisor, and didn't have anything to pay off besides car insurance/gas. A year ago her parents got a divorce, had to sell the house, and I moved out on my own, so now I have $900+ worth of bills a month, and I had my supervisor title yanked out from under my by some nutball religious freak operations manager who came into the company about a year and a half ago. So I explained to her that there's been some fairly obvious changes, and that I still love to ge her stuff and take her out, but she'd also have to be around more for me to be able to take her places. She said she'd be here more if we went out and not just sat around apartment. Thing is, whenever she comes over, she's tired and wants to sleep. So we do... well... we do after we clear up some... business... first, anyways. Whenever we argue, she likes to go around in circles, going over the same things over and over again.Starfishied said:1. My bf/gf is cheap, how do I get him/her to buy things for me?