There was a forum crash a year or two ago that deleted all the contents of the older threads but left them on the board with the title and all, just the posts missing. If you go back into the earlier threads, they are all empty like this and you can post into them and think you're really spiffy and smart and all when you're just a total idiot in reality.
P.S.: (you meaning he whom I refer to) --> (you meaning he to whom I refer)
P.P.S.: I am the true identity behind all posters on these forums, both in the OTF and out, so if you choose "him" to refer to any poster...it still means me. Even if "him" means "me" (which would mean you said "I hate me").
Me, being the generalized other, is internalized, and combines with I, being the principle of agency. Once combined in the mind, the self is formed which serves to organize action. Thus the self is a form of social control, since the self is based in the social world.