possibly one of the darkest points in my life

superman22

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possibly one of the darkest points in my life

god... today at school has got to be the worst...
ill start from the begining...

this girl and i, lets call her mary, to protect her name... were really close... weve been going out for like a year...
the thing is... i broke it off around last septemeber... and from there we were on and off...

and the thing is... durign the time we were off, i startd talking more to this new girl... she seemed to be having probelms, so i takled to her to help her... and we grew closer, really fast.. and it was stupid cause we did some stupid crap in a car.. no kisisng or anything, but jsut stupid crap...

and cause i was feeling kinda crappy cause of mary, i called this otehr girl and said things like "i wish you were here" etc....

well mary calls me during that time.. and asks if anythigns going on b/w me and the other girl.. and i say no b/c i didnt really like the other girl... i wanted to help her, like genuinely cause it turns out her bf slept with another girl, and she's mad. so i wasjust there to be there to talk to her.... btu i was stupid and i got too close..

anwaysy, i said no b/c honestly, i didnt think there was anthing there, and when she asked, did anythign happen, i dindt figure i needed to tell her, so i didnt...

well.. here we are in march now.... and me and mary since last september have very happy and very pissed at each other... and its finally gotten to a point where she's realyl realyl pissed at me....
and so mary starts talkign with the girl that i got clsoe with before... and the girl i got close wtih before tells mary everything that had hapepned...

the thign that is stupid is... mary didnt want me talking with the otehr girl in the past.. because she thoguht she was trashy, and wtvr... basically mary talked crap about the other girl... and now theyre uniting or wtvr....

and so when mary finds out about all that happeend.. she is calling me a f***** jerk now... and she's teling everyone else that....
so basically most of her friends, and acquaintces, as well as people that were once my friends... think im a jerk....


the thign is.. i would udnerstand why she is upset... but i takled to a christian teacher,a nd she told me i didnt have anythign to be wtvr about what hapepend... cause me and mary werent together at the time... since september we werent together....

its just.. mary is hurt cause we were close....

and i think she's telling everyone that i cheated on her when we were together.... which isnt true...

and no one will believe what i say, cause well, they wont...

so its my senior year in high schooll....
and my reputation of being a nice overall guy is gonig to turn to one where for the last days, everyone wil look at me with disgust and what not...

and i jsut feel lost and.... afraid i guess...

bring on the flamers... this is an open board..
curse, criticize, and ridicule me all you want...
but i guess i need some words of comfort if anything.. if possible...

and the thign is.. i tried talking to her.... and i tried apologizing for it saying "will you please forgvie me" so i alraedy did that.. and she's determined not to talk to me ever again....



life kinda sucks right now...

and i understand why she would be mad.. and i know i should have told her what happeend when it did happen.. .and... yeah...

sigh...
 

Wuhan_Clan

Diabloii.Net Member
Here we go again .... try the Relationship FAQ. It should still be around somewhere.

Look, its only highschool. I used to think that it meant everything in the world. The people who really are your friends will still be cool. In a few months, you won't have to see all the other people.

BTW, you did lie so you kind of brought it upon yourself.

So the answer is NO.
but you didn't even ask a question you say?
the answer is still NO.
!!!NO!!!
 

simplyLost

Diabloii.Net Member
why the hell would you aplogize.. you did nothing wrong.. and she knows that.. she's just upset that she's going to loose her fall back guy.. so she's treating you like crap so that you feel the same way.. tell her that you're not sorry.. and you shouldn't be seeing as you and mary had nothing going on at the time.. and thus.. you did nothing wrong.. if she doesn't like it.. tell her to get lost..

-Lost
 

Andy225

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roflmao... I was in a similiar situation earlier this year...


I go out with this girl lets call Mary... we met because i talked to another girl that knew Mary... the three of us sat together in study hall and talked for several weaks.. the three of us.... the other side of the table in the lunchroom did not talk to us at all... Mary thought the one girl was a skanky ***** that sat next to her.... It then became apparent that Mary liked me and she asks me out. 3 weeks later we hang out at a football game and have fun... we are then supposed to go to the movies the next day, I call her up and she says that she didn't even ask to go yet. It was like 6:00 at the time we were supposed to be going at 7:00 so I was like ok.... I was pissed off at the hoe and I was going to break up with her monday

Monday comes around and the hoe doesnt say a thing to me in gym class when I attempt to break up with her.

then the next day in study hall neither mary or her friend say a word to me... and this study hall was ****ing *** anyway because we aren't allowed to move. They start talking to the girl that they think is a skanky *****....... Mary does not talk to me anymore.....


So it goes from her hating the skanky ***** girl........ to not talking to me for no reason............i was breaking up with the ***** anyway but wtf kind of **** was that that she pulled...... honestly that was just a waste of three ****ing weeks
 

th5418

Banned
Andy, your story makes no sense. Who is the skanky girl? What does your girlfriend have to do with it? Why are you even dating during highschool? Too much time on your hands?
 

Andy225

Diabloii.Net Member
th5418 said:
Andy, your story makes no sense. Who is the skanky girl? What does your girlfriend have to do with it? Why are you even dating during highschool? Too much time on your hands?

its not supposed to make sense just the fact that the hoe stopped talking to me then goes to talking to a person who she said was a skanky *****... pissed me off
 

simplyLost

Diabloii.Net Member
th5418 said:
Andy, your story makes no sense. Who is the skanky girl? What does your girlfriend have to do with it? Why are you even dating during highschool? Too much time on your hands?
eh.. take up porn. it can never hurt you.. unless of course.. you try using the magazine paper as a papertowel.. PAPERCUT.. ow.. that hurts just thinking about it..

-Lost
 

dantose

Diabloii.Net Member
Wuhan_Clan said:
Here we go again .... try the Relationship FAQ. It should still be around somewhere.

Look, its only highschool. I used to think that it meant everything in the world. The people who really are your friends will still be cool. In a few months, you won't have to see all the other people.

BTW, you did lie so you kind of brought it upon yourself.

So the answer is NO.
but you didn't even ask a question you say?
the answer is still NO.
!!!NO!!!
The question is now answered on the revived relationship faq
 

mudvaynefan

Diabloii.Net Member
if your referring to girl problems as the darkest point in your life... then you have very little life expirience... even if you still are in high school...
 

superman22

Diabloii.Net Member
i say darkest only because it seems like i have no one to go to..
my family and i arent close at all..
and with everyone looking at me with disgust, i really have no one to go to..

its got to be one of the worst feelings in this 3%!%#!
 

drunken muslim

Diabloii.Net Member
!!!

simplyLost said:
eh.. take up porn. it can never hurt you.. unless of course.. you try using the magazine paper as a papertowel.. PAPERCUT.. ow.. that hurts just thinking about it..

-Lost
OUCH!!!! I just cringed thinking about it.
 

th5418

Banned
superman22 said:
i say darkest only because it seems like i have no one to go to..
my family and i arent close at all..
and with everyone looking at me with disgust, i really have no one to go to..

its got to be one of the worst feelings in this 3%!%#!
Hah, everyone comes to me for support! If i die/move/go into a coma, all my friend will become depressedl ike you.
 

cyclotronic

Diabloii.Net Member
but the thing is...
its just....
well....

Seems like you are trying to get us to tell you" ya you did the right thing, your clean"
But that fact is your not and you know it. Don't come here looking for simpathy when you don't disserve it.
 
Everything I need to know about life I learned from Wayne's World.

"Get over it, go out with somebody else."

Chicks are everywhere, man. Hot ones.

If breaking up with a chick is the darkest point in your life, don't even sweat it, because you're living the good life. Like Rick James.

Somebody smart said:
Seems like you are trying to get us to tell you" ya you did the right thing, your clean"
That's pretty much everybody's reason for hanging out with anyone, sociologically speaking. We have these self-images that we like to have reinforced, so we go places and hang out with people that we expect to reinforce them. Tough luck, buddy, you screwed up. But that doesn't mean you should abandon all hope.

The moral here is that you don't need some chick to reinforce your self-image of manliness, just punch yourself in the crotch. Feel that? That's what it feels like to be a man, baby! If you ever doubt it again, just repeat this simple test.

I mean sure, it's a little depressing that one person you're kinda attached to thinks you're somehow outside her acceptable range of potential lovers. Big deal though man, there are 3 billion others out there. Leave your house now and find one as soon as possible. Spend as close to no time mourning as is humanly possible.
 

superman22

Diabloii.Net Member
it really seems like most of you missed the main message?

i dotn need relationship faq.
im not wanting her back
im not sad that i dont have her
none of that.

try reading the whole thing..
 
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