if you wanted to chat you could IM me, my PM box isn't very big
the problem with arguing that everything is a dupe is that if you assume everything is a dupe you can't ban everything, you MUST ban nothing, and so all dupes are allowed
if instead you decided not to assume that just because something is a dupe it must be a dupe and accepted the possiblity of it being legit, then you would be able to make some kind of discernment between legit and dupe enough so that you could allow some items and disallow others
also this thread has not outlived itself, DK made it to try and reach some consensus as to how stickied threads and guides should be treated, not so we could run amok and then abandon it, I am hopeful that in talking to the admins he will be able to contribute more upon his return, but yes, I agree that in the meantime perhaps the thread is best left alone