More Advice for bigD

bigD72

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More Advice for bigD

Comments from the females would be mostly appreciated.

So, as many of you know I set up my prom date a couple weeks ago.

Tonight after hanging out with the girl at a mutual friend's birthday party all night I asked her out.

I told her that I liked her and her response was "Well, its obvious that I like you" so I continued with a "Do you want to go out with me" where upon I recieved a "I don't know, I do like you, but I don't know" and I was just had the expression I guess of "well. . ." She then said "I want to say yes, but I don't want the whole drama thing to happen."

Up until this point I have expressed to her alot of times that I am really honest and hate the 'drama thing' and she has agreed with me on all occasions, I even mentioned it a few times tonight just to drive the point home.

So I was left with an "I don't know."

I didn't want to be an ass-hole and push for an answer so I just said "get back to me on that?" kissed her on the cheek (1st 'kiss' for us) and got out of the car.

WHAT THE HELL DOES THIS MEAN!?!?!?!?
 

Mecal

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Well, im a dude, but i assume she means that she also likes someone else, and had them in mind.

thats what i get from the "i dont know"
because, she does like you, and yet she doesnt know, so thats my take on it.
 

bigD72

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For clarification purposes, I'm using like and not love in all cases. Because we are only 18.

I know some of you are going to say "insignificant in the long run" to which I say carpe diem.
 

AeroJonesy

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Welcome back. I knew you couldn't escape. Yeah, girls are weird. Just tell her it's no pressure and you just want to hang out with her, just the two of you. Although that might land you in the dreaded friend zone, whose gravitational pull is so strong there is no escape.
 

Tor

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i hate teh friend zone/homework ***** zone



most girls usually liek about 6000000 guys at once so it's pretty hard to stand out
 

Ash Housewares

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memememe173 said:
punch a pillow...it may not help, but it's fun


*WHACK*
you really should be blasting spanish villagers with a shotgun it helps more and is more fun

anyways, don't listen to jonesy, he's crazy, or be a nice guy and wait by the phone, whatever
 

Jimi-

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my old girlfriend said that she loved me and no one would take that away
next day she dumped me, cause she found another guy
 

HAMC8112

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Jimi- said:
my old girlfriend said that she loved me and no one would take that away
next day she dumped me, cause she found another guy
A good thing she was old anyway.
 

Freet

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I would like to preamble this thought by stating the obvious. We (the forum) really don't have enough information to formulate an informed opinion, so any suggestions given should be taken as "uninformed" and therefore, merely guesses.

From what I'm hearing though I would suspect that she is waiting for her first choice to ask her to the prom and, if this guy lets her down then you are in.

The whole "I like you but I just don't know" is just a way to buy her time.

Again, just a guess.
 

Madness

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From my experience, " I dont know" means no.
I'd say dont wait for an answer, go and be confident and show her that with you the prom will be a lot more fun.
Instead of asking her to be your date, tell her she is.

In my opinion, that's the best chance you got.
 

memememe173

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Ash Housewares said:
you really should be blasting spanish villagers with a shotgun it helps more and is more fun

anyways, don't listen to jonesy, he's crazy, or be a nice guy and wait by the phone, whatever
Shucks, why didn't I think of that...and I'm only missing the spanish villagers and the shotgun :uhhuh:
 

bigD72

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Freet said:
I would like to preamble this thought by stating the obvious. We (the forum) really don't have enough information to formulate an informed opinion, so any suggestions given should be taken as "uninformed" and therefore, merely guesses.

From what I'm hearing though I would suspect that she is waiting for her first choice to ask her to the prom and, if this guy lets her down then you are in.

The whole "I like you but I just don't know" is just a way to buy her time.

Again, just a guess.
We are already going to prom and I am her first choice. Me asking her to prom was me testing the waters to see if she does indeed like me.

Once she said yes, then I basically set a two week time frame for myself to ask her to be my girlfriend.
 
She totally digs you, dude. Don't listen to these guys. The drama bit just means she just got done with a relationship with an over-possessive boyfriend who caused a lot of emotional anguish for her. Just keep doin' what you're doin' with an eye toward subtly letting her know that you're not gonna be the type of guy to pick fights with her all the time, because you're in good. Sweep her off her feet at prom and ask her again after.
 

dantose

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That is a bit of an odd response. I'm not sure what to make of it from what you've given us. She could have other stuff going on at the moment. She could want to go with you but has already been asked by some one else and is trying to decide what to do. She could be waiting for someone else to ask her but doesn't have any objection to going with you if it doesn't work out.Give me a little history to work with here. Have you two dated in the past? have you dated one of her friends? Have either one of you recently broken up? Is she shy? outgoing? slutty? a man? a zombie?

Just give us as much info about both yourself and her as you can.

PS if she's undead, just give up. It'll never work out.
 
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