Oh? How did you know he made out with her? And more importantly, how did you know he enjoyed it?ZeppelinAngel said:jdawg, i am not keeping track of him, but when he looks in my eyes crying and tells me he loves me right before i leave, then goes and does something that he promised he wouldn't do the minute he doesn't have to look at me anymore.. is pretty crappy
Which means that you are still talking. For that to happen, one of a few things must occur.ZeppelinAngel said:because he so willingly informed me himself, he has no desire to hide it from me
thejdawg2 said:Which means that you are still talking. For that to happen, one of a few things must occur.
thejdawg2 said:The most common: you vowed to remain friends. But just friends. Obviously you still have feelings for him, so any mention that he makes of girls is particularly painful. Making it pretty much impossible for a real friendship to happen. Things will get awkward, since you can't really talk and things will fizzle out.
You still talk like boyfriend/girlfriend. Most likely because one of you couldn't handle the breakup as well as one would have hoped, and hoping that still talking like you did before will make it easier. It's unhealthy and it won't.
One of you is hoping that this talking will somehow fix whatever problems caused you to break up. It won't.
im 17... i was recalling my "younger" days in middle school... i am/was over them like the next day... but the girl i am with now would take a hell of a lot longer than that... but yea... dont need to talk about that, cuz it has almost been 6 months, and we is goin strong, woot!thejdawg2 said:Addendum: poster above me...are you like...13 or so? If so, it hurts now, but won't for long. It wasn't love, or anything close. These kinds of things happen when you're that young. Often.
Its a normal reaction when you've formed an attachment with someone. Don't listen to the hard-hearted among us, you aren't doing anything "wrong". Perhaps not the best thing you can do for your mental health, but nothing overtly self-destructive.ZeppelinAngel said:because i'm stupid?
i can't explain why i still want to talk to him, sometimes i wonder myself, it's just like i don't want to completely let go or something
I have been split from my wife for over 4 months right now and I have no plans on another woman anytime soonZeppelinAngel said:well i was just wondering.. do most guys run out and try to find another girl to be with/do things with right after they break up with their girlfriends?
i'm a bit confused right now :scratch:
Underseer said:Rebound relationships always end badly. I avoid them like the plague. The time after a breakup is a good time to distract yourself with a new hobby... like Diablo!