I don't even know my half sister.

ProjectHate

Diabloii.Net Member
I don't even know my half sister.

Well , I'm 18 years old and when I was around 12 or something my friend told me I had a half sister.I thaught he was just bull****ting but then I went home that night and I asked my mother and I told her please don't lie to me.And then she started crying and she was like you deserve to know the truth you're dad has a daughter and she lives in Sweden, (I live in Canada)She was shocked that her best friend (my friends mother) told him this.I don't even know her name but I know shes around 20 -25? and has a kid so technically im someones uncle I guess..Also I have a brother, he's 15 and we live together but he has no idea about having a step sister somewhere in this world.Also in the 18 years I've been living with my father , he has never mentioned this.

Now my question is , if you guys were in my situation.. would you wan't to meet with her someday or maybe you wouldn't care? I mean we have the same dad..that kinda makes us close =/?

Any opinions would be greatly appreciated because there aren't many people I can discuss this with...Have a nice day.
 

Isolde212

Banned
I know about this situation more than you think. I met my biological family when I was 19. I knew I was adopted and met them by fluke. I met my half brothers at the same time. One was adopted by another family but had reunited two months earlier and was less than a year younger than me. My other brother was 10 years younger than me that my birth mom had kept. It's funny but even though I didn't know them for most of my life I feel closer to them than my (also adopted) sister who I grew up with my whole life.
My one brother lives in Austria and the other one lives in my hometown and I continue to have rewarding relationships. It's probably the best thing that's ever happened to me.
 

Merick

Diabloii.Net Member
Not having any siblings, and having always wanted some, yes, I would want to meet her. I would keep in mind most people don't have much of a relationship with their siblings at that age, and that you didn't grow up together, which isn't going to make two random strangers like each other any more.
 

Machina

Diabloii.Net Member
Not having any siblings, and having never wanted any, no, I would not want to meet her.
 

ProjectHate

Diabloii.Net Member
Thanks for all your thaughts but I was thinking..there might be that possibility that she doesn't want anything to do with me.. heh. I wish I can get my hands on her email adress or something .I'm gonna try writing her,I think my mom knows her adress and stuff. She sent my dad pics of her kid and stuff and my dad didn't even call her or anything wtf...
 

bg1256

Diabloii.Net Member
If it were me, I would want to meet her. In today's day and age, with the communication technologies, I would try to make contact that way first. If it seemed like it would be beneficial to both of us, I would definitely make contact.

Imo, nothing is more important in life than family.
 

Dondrei

Diabloii.Net Member
Yeah, I wouldn't want to make that first contact via email, it's abit impersonal.

bg1256 said:
Imo, nothing is more important in life than family.
The one you were born into or the one you make yourself?
 

pancakeman

Diabloii.Net Member
I got a half-brother, and I want to meet him.

He's Canahdian, and is supposedly loaded! Maybe he can take a private jet down here.....
 

Corneo

Diabloii.Net Member
I have a half brother and half sister. Right now I have no interest to meet them since it would probably be a distraction to my life right now. I was never close to my biological father so it doesn't really matter that they are out there.
 

Sokar Rostau

Diabloii.Net Member
I have a half sister that I havn't seen since she was five and a half brother I havn't seen since he was one. I don't know his name. I also have 3-4 other half brothers and sisters that I have never met. I have occasionally thought of my sister, but not much, more curiosity than anything. I never chat up women named Rebecca though...

I am the only member of my family for at least three generations that has not been divorced, disowned or having affairs and secret children. Meeting long lost half-siblings would just confuse the tangled mess further.
 

myleftfoot

Diabloii.Net Member
dondrei said:
Yeah, I wouldn't want to make that first contact via email, it's abit impersonal.



The one you were born into or the one you make yourself?
The one you call family.
 

Quietus

Diabloii.Net Member
pancakeman said:
I got a half-brother, and I want to meet him.

He's Canahdian, and is supposedly loaded! Maybe he can take a private jet down here.....

I am not! Psh... private jets... do you know how much fuel those things eat up?

Give me three years, I have my scientists working on an engine that runs on water.
 

Dondrei

Diabloii.Net Member
Sokar Rostau said:
I have a half sister that I havn't seen since she was five and a half brother I havn't seen since he was one. I don't know his name. I also have 3-4 other half brothers and sisters that I have never met.
Born in a cult, huh? :grin:

pancakeman said:
I got a half-brother, and I want to meet him.

He's Canahdian, and is supposedly loaded! Maybe he can take a private jet down here.....
Just don't design a brand new car for his company with tail fins, bubble domes, shag carpeting and three horns that all play La Cucaracha.
 

ProjectHate

Diabloii.Net Member
After reading your responses I'm quite suprised at how many people are in my situation.Well I most definately want to meet her before I die ..shes my sister!Wow it feels really weird saying that hehe.
 
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