I'm a patriarch player. What I found out is that as I was about to join a game from the list of games, all games listed were the Hell level ones. Is there anyway to get a list for all games (Normal + Nightmare + Hell)?
Not without going over the borders of legitimacy. Sorry.
For times like these I have normal and nightmare game monkeys. You can just use characters that are in either normal or nightmare difficulty, check out the game list, switch to your hell character and join whichever game you decided on.