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How do you guys keep your cool?

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  1. Breakdown

    Breakdown IncGamers Member

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    How do you guys keep your cool?

    I asked this girl out last week and i pretty much had a rough start. I took her out for a simple dinner and movie but i was practically a nervous wreck. I had no idea on what to talk about and was pretty much quiet and akward the whole time. I was so damn scared i actually shook when she leaned on me = /
     
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    HAMC8112 IncGamers Member

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    Dont worry, great start!
     
  3. Breakdown

    Breakdown IncGamers Member

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    I was looking for help, but if thats the case



     
  4. Sir EvilFreeSmeg

    Sir EvilFreeSmeg Banned

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    Beer
    Rum
    Whisky
    Scotch
    Bourbon
    Cognac
    Vodka

    Don't forget she's nervous too!
     
  5. Module88

    Module88 IncGamers Member

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    She leaned on you. Stop complaining.



     
  6. Sir EvilFreeSmeg

    Sir EvilFreeSmeg Banned

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    Yeah, it's not like you had to touch a bra or anything. Right Mod? :laugh:
     
  7. Module88

    Module88 IncGamers Member

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    If I recall correctly, I already got you to surrender and concede defeat. So sit down. :laugh:
     
  8. Breakdown

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    im not even out of high school yet btw
     
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    I can't really give advice on how to do it, it's just something you need practice and confidence for I guess. Which isn't telling you anything you don't already know.
     
  10. Module88

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    So uh... how'd you get her to lean on you again? :scratch:



     
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    You'll get used to it over time. All things are scary the first time. Familiarity breeds contempt.
     
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    High School is meant to be awaked. If you're not a blubbering nervous wreak on the outside, you're one on the inside.

    Little tip, though, start as friends. That way you actually get to know the girl and she gets to know you, rather than whatever fronts the two of you might be putting up. If you two started as friends then stop worrying. She already knows your quirks and agreed to date you anyway. :p
     
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    I have to agree with Donny here, you just have to get over it. If we tell you to do something you'll do it all awkward and then she really will feel creeped out. As long as you didn't do anything horribly embarrassing or inappropriate you're fine.
     
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    Or better yet, do something embarrassing or inappropriate on purpose and see if she sticks around. O:)



     
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    Just remember she could have said no.
     
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    Don't listen to this guy. It doesn't work. Believe me, I know. :laugh:



     
  17. Breakdown

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    during the movie



     
  18. Module88

    Module88 IncGamers Member

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    What movie was this? :shocked:



     
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    just be yourself. if you have been friends before, it should be easier. If not, just hang out more instead of having these so called "dates" because "dates" just seem to formal and will make you more nervous.
     
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    I thought my advice was both sound and to the point. If you do something silly she's either going to laugh with you or at you, might as well figure out which it's gonna be early on!

    In all seriousness, though, be yourself. She agreed to go on a date with you for a reason, and I'd assume it has something to do with the fact that she has a thing for who you are. ;)

    Just make sure you always zip your fly before/during dates and you should be fine. Though, not zipping the fly very quickly answers the question in my second sentence…
     

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