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Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by th5418, Mar 28, 2004.

  1. th5418

    th5418 Banned

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    How do I....

    How do i convince someone that i care about them? This has nothing to do with highschool love or whatever. Someone I care about, and they decide wether they want to go to another HS next year. I dont want them to but she wants to know what there is to stay for....
     
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    Tell her you care for her and maybe ask her out if thats the kind of care your talking about.
     
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    What part of
    do you not understand. And she just wont take the words "I care" for a reason because she doesnt believe it. Sigh...
     
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    Yeah, maybe the question was a hint? Never know 'til you rule out the possibility
     
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    Geez...bite his head off would you?
     
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    Im pretty positive she doesnt like me. Because she keeps on repeating "I dont believe in love" over and over and over.
     
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    Yeah, I feel like biting the head off of anyone who is joking. I dont want this thread hijacked, nor do I want it to turn into some joke crap. I dont want to lose her.

    EDIT: why do i have a strange urge to dress like seph in my avatar?
     
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    Well, then. Tell her she has nothing to hang out for, and send her on her merry way. :howdy:

    Honestly dude, if it's not about any emotional bond you have with her, then what IS it about?
     
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    Okay, maybe I didnt explain this clearly. I have a thing for her. She has a thing for nobody. So of course that diddnt matter. She thinks she causes pain everywhere around wherever she goes. Thats like the #1 reason she wants to go to another HS. She also thinks nobody cares for her. #2 reason.
     
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    So she's just a high school drama queen? Well let her go.
     
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    Thats the point of this thread......I dont want to, so, how can I convince her to stay? By the way im asian if that matters.
     
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    Tell her she'll lose you as a friend and that will hurt you.

    i got it. She says she causes pain everywhere she goes. Tell her she'll cause pain by leaving.
     
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    Good plan, but its past that point. I have to prove I care. Not prove she will cause more hatred/anger/pain if she leaves.
     
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    This is a most difficult topic. I mean that in all honesty.

    It sounds like she is a strong person. Would you agree?

    It also sounds like you are trying to control her in some way. Meaning you want her to do something that will bring you happiness.

    Well, you let them find their own way. You support them. Talk to her or write her.

    Maybe she doesn't believe in it because she hasn't felt it yet?

    Love is easy. Co-dependency is hard.
     
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    Whats a simple act, but has a lot of meaning? Has no phsyical intimacy and may be one of the most simpliest things ever.
     
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    Write her a note.
     
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    This is why I love the OTF man. *laches self onto chair and never leaves*
     
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    *inserts corny YOUR NEVER LEAVING thing*

    Hey tommorow if this is still up I'll ask my good friend about what a guy should do to make a girl realize he cares for her. She'll give me a good answer.
     
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    It's high school drama. Trust me. In a few years, you won't even think about this chick.
     
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    Pssh. There's your problem right there.

    Now to be serious... now, you're saying that she doesn't like you, so what are you hoping to accomplish by having her stay? I mean, if there's nothing there, then you're both most likely going to go your separate ways eventually anyways.

    But eh, it's your time, I suppose, so let's see, what can you do...

    You can sit her down, just you and her with no other distractions, and tell her what you think. Plan out what you're going to say in advance if you're going to do this.

    As someone said, you can write it in a note, though I've always prefered to do things face to face, but that's just how I am.

    Find a person who she particuarly dislikes, and see that they're never heard from again.

    Yes, that's right, I'm implying that you send them to Wisconsin.

    Find out through hours of investigation what her schedule is, and show up at her work (if applicable), when she's with her friends, when she's not with her friends, at her family reunions, and anywhere else she is. When she goes in to her house for the night, hide out and camp out in her rose bushes until morning. Every couple of hours, scratch your fingernails across her window, just so she knows that you're there. (May require a ladder.)

    Lure her into your basement, and shackle her down there, so that you're her only source of food, water, human contact, and everything else required in a person's daily life. Make sure that she knows that if she isn't quiet when you want her to be, she gets the hose again. Make sure you use such poetic phrases as "I'll grind the organ when I want to monkey to dance."

    All of the above are very sound, effective tips. Use them well. Thank you and goodnight.
     

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