Girlfriend being wierd!! give me help Sup guys, I know i'm hardly never around anymore but i just felt like dropping in and throwing in one of those good 'ol relationship threads. I know I'm usually the guy wo knows a lot about girls, but that was before I had a girlfriend for 4 months. Girls are sooooo wierd! Ok let me explain my delima, then you guys give me your expert advice. Ok, we've been together since early december. Always been awesome, probably because that was the "lovey dovey" phase. Before we started getting to know each other, that kinda stuff. It's been awesome, I really like her, she really likes me. Any time we try to have a seroius talk it usually ends up talking about why she doesn't ever open up to me, or anyone for that matter. I have no trouble at all teller her how i feel about her, but she just goes blank and says little snippets of feelings when she's nervous. Ok, I can deal with that fine. But lately shes been freakin weird. I think she's getting nervous that me and her are getting too seroius, since she been ditching me alot to hang out with her slutty pothead friends. I've accepted that she doesn't want to hang out with me all the time because she's afraid she'll lose all her girl friends and according to her, "its better when she sees me after a few days apart". Ok fine I can deal with that too. But she's just pissing me off now. On 4 occasions in a row me and her have been hanging out at night, then her freaking lesbo man-gina friend calls her to ask what she's doing, and she'll say, "oh nothing, just hanging out with rob". Followed by, "Ok i'll meet you over there". Then she leaves to go drink and go to bars with her. This annoys me very much. I think she's probably just being a stupid freshman who only wants to go be "wild" or whatever the hell is so fun about going to clubs with girls. Nonetheless, I know the facts. She is not cheating on me, she likes being with me, and she still likes me. My question is what should i do about this? She will be a sophomore next year and living in an appartment with one of her friends who I think is really cool. She just needs to get out of that dorm of worthless slutty potheads because they are screwing over her grades and scholarship and everything she had going for her. I know I am the only GOOD enfluence she has. Sometimes i just want to dump her and sometimes i just want to wade it out, cause I figure it will blow over after her freshman year. I really like her and I think we can be together for a long time. So what do you think? Is she just being a retarted hot blonde girl or is it something to worry about?