Girl help please... I usually won't be one to post such a thing, about girls and such, but there's a first for everything right? =P Before anything happens, I think it's best that you know I am in grade 9 (14 years of age) Anyways, there's this girl whom I think is pretty cute, and I don't usually go and ask people out, because I am not usually that kind of person. And I don't usually notice any girls, even if they're REALLY hot, but this one girl has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I don't really know how to approach her, I have usually been really relaxed around her, and I haven't really been really outrageous when I am around her (if you know what I mean), so how do I approach this girl without seeming kind of weird? Now this girl is always surrounded by tons of friends, and I can never get a single moment with her alone so I will probably never get a chance to talk to her as I am pretty shy around some girls. Again, the question is: How should I approach this girl? Try to get her E-mail and tell her over instant messaging or E-mail? Write her letter? I need to know how I can tell her about how I feel without getting embarassed or whatever. Thanks for any kind of help, I really appreciate it.