Fast Seduction: It Takes Two to Tango? Sites (and books) like Fast Seduction are often seen as representing the dregs of men and male behavior, especially by feminists. However, after reading a comment by a particular book reviewer, I have to ask the question: Are sites and books that advocate an "alpha male", "player" approach towards getting woman a bigger indictment of men, or of women? I.e. If a book tells its reader that the key to getting women is to stop being so nice, and to start being chauvinistic, and this advice leads the reader to succeed in his goal, is this a condemnation of the attitudes of the typical man, or the typical woman? Bizzarre question, I know, but I found it interesting.