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Does sex strenghten or degrade?

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  1. th5418

    th5418 Banned

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    Does sex strenghten or degrade?

    Does sex strengthen or degrade a relationship? Why or why not?

    My girlfriend asked me this and I have no idea how to answer. :thumbsup:
     
  2. Yaboosh

    Yaboosh IncGamers Member

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    There is hardly one answer to this. Depends on the relationship.
     
  3. th5418

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    Hmm, imagine the relationship to be ..... I dont know. Let's post up scenarios!
    A) Married - Stable life no kids yet
    B) Going out for about a year. Love each other.
     
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    Phantom_Man IncGamers Member

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    Not having the experience to say either way, I'd just say that as long as sex isn't the glue (no pun intended) of the relationship, it should hold through. I think it's more of, how you interpret your relationship than just by the actions taken.
     
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    corax IncGamers Member

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    Scenario A) i'd probably say strengthen as it can stop a partner from wandering.
    Scenario B) depends on age/maturity and how much each person is into the other, alot of relationships of people around my age (17) are based on sex and they could stay together or split up based on the quality.

    personally however i have no idea
     
  6. Drosselmeier

    Drosselmeier IncGamers Member

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    It can do both. If you're in a sound relationship sex will strenghten it. If you're in a bad relationship sex will damage the relationship further and speed the break up.
     
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    I’m and older guy and I’ll give you my limited experience. In some relationships prior to my marriage the sex wasn’t very good and the relationship ended shortly after we first had it. In another pre-marriage relationship we stayed together because of the sex. We had no common interests, we met at a bar dated a few times, had sex and were together for about 4 months. Then I found someone with some like interests that also had a good grasp on enjoyable sex, I had sex with her before leaving the nymph, shhh don’t tell.

    Anyhow that lasted for awhile but we had limited same interests and she moved on. A couple one-niters proved to be the reason not to have one-niters, as the sex wasn’t good beyond the wow I’m having sex with someone I haven’t had sex with before good.

    My first marriage was probably based more on sex than it should have and didn’t last that long. Well it was either that or because the Army stationed one of us in NY and one in Hawaii and was taking it’s time getting us back together so a lack of sex and the relationship ended.

    But my answer is yes it can make and break a relationship. Unless you are very religious don’t wait till your honey moon to have it, because if you do and it sucks well you’re stuck without a divorce or cheating.

    If you have it and you or she is thinking well that wasn’t as great as everyone said it would be then tell the other you want to talk about it and let that person know what can be done to make it better.

    She HAS to tell you if you were pushing the right “buttons†and which ones to push, and you HAVE to tell her what would make it better for you, just let it be known that you’re both trying to get the most out of it and if you are both new then there is a lot to it.

    Remember don’t just jump on go like a rabbit and be done in minutes, she most likely will not be to pleased and always try to give her the big “O†before getting yours be it with hand, mouth, or other.
     
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    All studies show that those who have a satisfying sex life are closer and happier with each other.
     
  9. GIR

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    Inquire as to why she's speaking, and not in the kitchen or bedroom waiting patiently to satisfy your every need.

    She's trying to trick you. Any answer can and will be wrong. Go on the offensive.
     
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    Like Yaboosh says, it depends on the relationship.

    In general, if you are looking for a satisfying relationship that encompasses friendship, mutual respect and trust, jumping into sex too quickly could prevent that from ever happening. It tends to make the relationship all about sensation and never get off the ground for the deeper stuff. I think that's why some relationships that start off with wild, passionate sex end up in the dump when the couple finds out later that they don't even really like each other as people.

    So, not that I'm against first-date sex and all, but if you're after more than that you might want to wait a bit and find out who you're with. If sex is all you want, and it's mutual, then go for it.
     
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    If I was you I'd ask my girlfriend not to ask any more stupid questions.
     
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    If your girlfriend is asking you, the answer is ALWAYS strengthen.

    Don't turn her into a cold fish, man.
     
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    Sex ruined my relationship in just five short seconds...
     
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    Thats what I said. But then she asked, "Why do you think that?"
     
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    Let's talk about sex

    I would say if the relationship is loving and mutual, then yes. If the relationship is casual OR one-sided, then no. Sex cements a bond that does not exist in casual relationships.
     
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    What do you mean, relationship? What about sex without a relationship?
     
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    Yes, tell her to shut up and take her clothes off!
     
  18. GIR

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    Then that would be another thread. This is about sex in relationships.
     
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    Oh sorry, i was to hasty posting than. :D
     
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    Oooh, she knew how to block the obvious answer. That's rough.

    Tricky ***** (no offense meant of course).
     

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