EuroJamie said:
Nevertheless, I have to say that I’ve never had an unkind word written about me by any of the long-established forum members.
Well.. if you're feeling left out... we can 'arrange' something??
EuroJamie said:
It seems that recently there have been a few incidents which have caused some conflict
(ed: emphasis added)
You *must* be new here!

(nb: slashdot in joke)
EuroJamie said:
Forum arguments, in my experience, are 99% based on misunderstandings.
A fair few are caused by people just having different opinions. And some people will slag off at someone just because they think differently about something than the group does - no matter if the group is wrong (it happens, and some people need to learn to deal with that), or if they are talking about a specific build or situation.
A good example:
Max Lower Resist or 'let +skills do the work'?
The 'facts' are not disputed - everyone happily admits that the returns are diminishing. *However* the interpretation of those facts is somewhat open to differences of opinion. There are some situations where someone might choose to max out Lower Resist.
Same with Clay Golem - if you're after something really unkillable... and you have plenty of spare skill points, why not put some in CG??? Again, its a situational thing.
But some people treat you like a moron for trying to do anything different, even if there might be a good reason. There's even a well known saying "the exception that proves the rule", which expresses that sometimes when you have a rule that is good in general, it doesn't always apply.
It is a particular delusion common to 'smarter than average' people that anyone whose opinion differs from theirs is being irrational.
And sometimes even smart people say dumb things.
EuroJamie said:
This thread is a prime example. A comment was misinterpreted and before you know it the whole thing starts escalating towards a flame war.
Its not so much a misunderstanding as N313 *choosing* to interpret something as a personal attack.
I didn't call him a complete moron, but when he said that I said that about him, he sure was acting like one.
EuroJamie said:
I think that suggesting that anyone should “move on†from the forum is rather discouraging.
Meh, its a common technique in parenting. If a child is misbehaving, tell them to take a time out.
The same thing happened with the Magic the Gathering community. You'd get these people posting with great goodness for a couple of years, and then they'd suddenly turn around, lash out and announce that they were quitting and everyone still playing was a complete tool.
A well known concept in economics is that of 'diminishing marginal returns' - similar in this context to what happens when you put more points into Lower Resist, you get less and less benefit. In econ one example is the person in the desert dying of thirst. The first glass of water is amazing, the second slightly less so, after about ten they don't want anymore, the twentieth is physically painful, and the fiftieth kills them (apparently you can drown from drinking too much water in a single sitting). In this example the benefit has diminished to zero (at say the 20th glass), and further consumption beyond that point is worse than not continuing, the marginal benefit (ie the benefit of drinking the next glass) is negative.
People keep playing games beyond the point where they are no longer fun anymore. Then if they keep going eventually the 'unfunness' of each game uses up that historic amount of fun, and then it becomes painful to keep playing, and eventually the pain gets too much, and they blow up all over the place.
Well, the point is, that some people don't sound like they're having fun anymore.
Maybe they need to take time out.
It used to be that every six months, I'd go through a 'Battletech' phase, where I'd haul out the books, crank up some spreadsheets etc, design some mechs and 'go layeth the plasma cannon downeth on yo candy-fibrous armoured asseth'.
I'd play it for a while, and then I'd move on. Maybe to gurps, or Shadowrun, or chess, or Command and Conquer. And eventually I'd come back full circle to Battletech.
Tragically, Fasa ruined both Shadowrun and Battletech. If I play them anymore its only with people who also remember the 'good old days'.
The problem with D2 of course, is that if you take a hiatus to refresh and recover, you lose everything if it takes longer than 90 days. So you have to keep sticking around, and there's no 'recovery' period.
MtG has a similar problem, in that there is a 'treadmill' of rules changes and new card sets always coming out, so that if you stop playing for a while it can be *very expensive* to get back on.
Speaking of treadmills, I guess I should stop crusading for peace love and mungbeans and get my candy-asseth down to the gym... :howdy:
EuroJamie said:
The news about the demise of the PoisonDagger bug in Necrochild313’s extremely well-documented test thread was one of the most important posts I’ve read since I joined earlier in the year
Yeah, that was an interesting one. It was good to see someone challenge the groupthink. Its then very disappointing to see the same person turn back into one of the sheep elsewhere. But... as they say, even a stopped clock is right twice a day.
I know I've got lots of strong opinions. I've also admitted that I've been wrong (on factual issues) before. I don't like doing that, so I try to reserve my strong opinions for those things I actually know something about. In particular I hardly ever post about PvP because I don't know anything about it (my other recent thread being the excpetion that proves the rule).
But some people wade in all over the place and spout off stuff they haven't actually thought about and they're just parroting the party line, or on topics that they clearly know nothing about.
A good example is the fundamental change to the game now that you can buy mana potions. I've seen lots of older players saying things that only make sense in the context of mana being an important resource that needs to be managed. Well, that's no longer true, but they haven't thought through the implications.
Is the decreasing mana cost on Bone Prison such a good thing anymore? Probably not (if you're operating from the premise that mana is now close to being free), and yet you still get people saying thats the best reason to put lots of points into it!
I was thinking a while back about what the 'true' cost of a full regen pot should be, when I realised that the closest equivalent is a town portal. That was an interesting train of thought. Someone who hasn't thought about it from that point of view (or who plays lots of melee chars, which I hardly ever play) is going to have a different opinion about their true value, even though exactly the same 'facts' are available to them.
EuroJamie said:
Furthermore, the contributions of newer posters is also invaluable, as they frequently can give a new spin to things that the “vets†may not have considered, a great example being Leuchovius' Jailkeeper guide.
Bah. That was a well written, but poorly thought out, steaming pile of poop. There were other much more original guides out there at the same time.
His guide boils down to 'corpse explosion + bone prison is good'. Well duh. Its not like we didn't already know that.
It didn't really add much at all, *especially* since he wrote like he'd tried it out, but then it turned out it was just an exercise in ego mastubation.
EuroJamie said:
Furthermore, I’d also say that bringing up your thread asking Necrochild313 to apologise is pretty counterproductive.
Yes, but if N313 brings up his 'spotless shiny record of being a paragon of helpfulness and virtue' while at practically the same time he's telling other people to STFU, then it becomes fair game to raise those points.
He (N313) specifically asked for examples of *anyone* who had found him unhelpful, he bought it into context, and it only took about 3 seconds for me to find the first counter-example.
Maybe in his little universe telling people to STFU qualifies as being 'helpful', but he must be using a very strange definition of help. (Or maybe its a 'tough love' kind of thing???)