Curious About Your Thoughts

[buttershug]

It doesn't necessarily mean he wants in your pants.. sounds like he's definitely interested, though. Some guys -- they might be rare --- but some guys may actually be interested in you for you.

*** men are not that rare.

 

[Shaigon]

*** men are not that rare.

Haha, that was good.

 

[AeroJonesy]

*** men are not that rare.

Considering how flaming some of them are, I'd expect quite a few of them to be quite well done.

 

[th5418]

That was one hell of a story...

 

[MixedVariety]

Mixed, even if Chantal's friend DOES see it as proof that she's comfortable with Chantal and her boyfriend hanging around, it's still kinda rude to say "Hey, let's hang out!" then start copping some Z's.

People fall asleep, is what my point is. By itself, I sure wouldn't take it as a yardstick of devotion level. If it happens all the time, maybe it's a sign to see a doctor.

 

[hacchantal]

People fall asleep, is what my point is. By itself, I sure wouldn't take it as a yardstick of devotion level. If it happens all the time, maybe it's a sign to see a doctor.

She's just tired at like 10:30 every night. I know she sometimes has sleep problems, so that might be the case, but if you know you're tired, don't bother doing something with your friends or calling them up, knowing you're dead tired. She also isn't much fun when she's tired either :undecided: all grumpy and such... I don't want to be around really.

That was one hell of a story...

Glad you enjoyed it! Do I have a talent in writing? (Even if it's a true story) haha jk.

 

[th5418]

Anyways, I actually read it this time. Yeah this guy is a sleezeball. Tell your friend about this. He's looking for another girl, and at the same time he's having your friend as backup. If he doesn't find another girl, at least he still has your friend.

 

[hacchantal]

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oh, phooey! these are kids. the nathan guy clearly is second guessing his current g/f. I see nothing wrong with him chatting people up. it's not like he's married or anything. sometimes when relationships go bad, they're over before they're over. Him fishing is not a sign he'll cheat on his next girlfriend.

Wow! I have now come back to this thread that I made clearly like two years ago, and realized; some of you were RIGHT! Especially you, Stevinator. He clearly cheated on his girlfriend, Stephanie. And it ended, badly. :O

Oh and the conclusion; he did have a thing for me. And later on, I realized I had a thing for him, but totally not while I made this topic haha; Nothing became of it though; he stayed with the girlfriend he cheated with. And I'm not currently dating the same guy either. And another thing, I am totally not friends with Stephanie anymore. She was hell of a no good friend. Glad I'm out.

 

[Dondrei]

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Wow, I thought I'd never get closure on that anecdote.

They're still together? Why do women stay with sleazebags?

 

[hacchantal]

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Wow, I thought I'd never get closure on that anecdote.

They're still together? Why do women stay with sleazebags?

You did not realize how long it took me to find this post again haha! I find it so amusing ! They have broken up, they're not together anymore... it was a huge dramatic stressful moment with them. I didn't even think anyone would reply to this, since it was from so long ago! They were both sleazebags, so they kind of matched; but at the end one of them got a little more sleazier.

 

[jakotaco]

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Had some troubles finding the right words in this delicate kind of subjects, I'll blame it on not being my native language while knowing it would be hard in swedish aswell.

Just because he might seem a bit flirtatious in his conversations doesn't mean he is really planning to leave his girlfriend. There are lots of people who defaults to that kind of behaviour when talking to the opposite sex without having some secret agenda or something. Male/Female friendships usually contains a small trace of sexual tension, even when it comes to friends that both know they are "just friends" and mean it. Subtle flirts are often nothing more than friendly flattery, something that makes the conversations more enjoyable for both.

That being said, the flirtatious types typically tones the flirty side down when conversating with people they have no interest in at all, so it's not all innocent.

Point was, (in response to some of the posters of the early pages) that one can't force ones partner, male or female, to live his/her life in a burkha. There will always be other people he/she likes and other people that likes him/her but in the end it is about what morals the person has. In most cases he/she knows whom to love and stay faithful to.

Now sure, it was obvious he liked you and somewhere within you liked him too. I also agree he went further than acceptable in a relationship, personally I was more concerned with the combination of talking about problems in his current relationship and "testing the waters".

(Actually, the further i got into typing the more I started to agree with others in the thread even considered just erasing all out, but whatever...)

 

[Mcwhopper]

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Had some troubles finding the right words in this delicate kind of subjects, I'll blame it on not being my native language while knowing it would be hard in swedish aswell.

Just because he might seem a bit flirtatious in his conversations doesn't mean he is really planning to leave his girlfriend. There are lots of people who defaults to that kind of behaviour when talking to the opposite sex without having some secret agenda or something. Male/Female friendships usually contains a small trace of sexual tension, even when it comes to friends that both know they are "just friends" and mean it. Subtle flirts are often nothing more than friendly flattery, something that makes the conversations more enjoyable for both.

That being said, the flirtatious types typically tones the flirty side down when conversating with people they have no interest in at all, so it's not all innocent.

Point was, (in response to some of the posters of the early pages) that one can't force ones partner, male or female, to live his/her life in a burkha. There will always be other people he/she likes and other people that likes him/her but in the end it is about what morals the person has. In most cases he/she knows whom to love and stay faithful to.

Now sure, it was obvious he liked you and somewhere within you liked him too. I also agree he went further than acceptable in a relationship, personally I was more concerned with the combination of talking about problems in his current relationship and "testing the waters".

(Actually, the further i got into typing the more I started to agree with others in the thread even considered just erasing all out, but whatever...)

You are aware of the fact that this has all been settled, right? Something about thread necromancy and wacky polls comes to mind :thumbup:




Even though Im kinda baffled that someone would consider someone a friend only to come to the conclusion that they don't like each other at all a little bit later. Guess the criteria I use when it comes down to who is and who isn't a friend are way different from those of other people.

Not to mention this kind of thing (deciding later on a friend really isn't a friend) is pretty much gender related? Or at least my experience seems to tell me so.

 

[hacchantal]

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Not to mention this kind of thing (deciding later on a friend really isn't a friend) is pretty much gender related? Or at least my experience seems to tell me so.

What do you mean by gender related? I'm not sure I understand.

 

[jakotaco]

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You are aware of the fact that this has all been settled, right? Something about thread necromancy and wacky polls comes to mind :thumbup:

Yeah, I realised that half way through. Now looking back at it, it might be a bit pointless to respond to something written a year ago... :crazyeyes:

What do you mean by gender related? I'm not sure I understand.

Bit stereotypical, yes. Although in my experience I have seen this behaviour more often in women or at least the way of expressing it that way. Girls seem more likely to state that someone is not her friend anymore while a boy would more likely use something vaguer like "we don't hang out anymore". Male friends also seems to have easier to forgive each other, even when someone has done something really bad.

 

[hacchantal]

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Yeah, I realised that half way through. Now looking back at it, it might be a bit pointless to respond to something written a year ago... :crazyeyes:



Bit stereotypical, yes. Although in my experience I have seen this behaviour more often in women or at least the way of expressing it that way. Girls seem more likely to state that someone is not her friend anymore while a boy would more likely use something vaguer like "we don't hang out anymore". Male friends also seems to have easier to forgive each other, even when someone has done something really bad.

I kind of figured that this was what you meant,. but wasn't sure. I do agree, and I'm a female! Although I use the term "we are not friends anymore" I am forgiving though. But I see what you mean about guys, they just "don't hang out anymore" but they don't hold grudges or anything. I wonder why... :scratchchin:

My ex-friend, however, cowers at me every time she sees me, she didn't even try to make eye contact. She didn't try to fix the "issue" that was going on that made it get like this. She's a "run away from my problems" type of girl, unfortunately. Hell, she could have saved the friendship if she tried, Oh well. Haha.

I spose it might be pointless to respond to something a year ago, you are right - haha.

 

[Johnny]

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That's because deep down in the more primal part of the female mind she sees all other females as competitors for the precious male seed. That's why they clash more viciously with each other.

 

[Dondrei]

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If it's so precious how come it's flying around all over the place all the time?

I kind of figured that this was what you meant,. but wasn't sure. I do agree, and I'm a female! Although I use the term "we are not friends anymore" I am forgiving though. But I see what you mean about guys, they just "don't hang out anymore" but they don't hold grudges or anything. I wonder why... :scratchchin:

Once there is no longer any possibility of sex a man has no further interest, positive or negative.

 

[jakotaco]

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I kind of figured that this was what you meant,.

actually it was Mcwhopper who said it first, I just gave my interpretation he might have meant something different. :whistling:

Once there is no longer any possibility of sex a man has no further interest, positive or negative.

How does that affect a heterosexual male's ability to hold a grudge with another male? :scratchchin:

 

[Dondrei]

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Oh right, didn't follow what she was saying.

 

[hacchantal]

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Lol - you guys just confuse the hell out of me.