Calling all SPFers, i need opinions

[dark_novastar]

Calling all SPFers, i need opinions

Ok, this is seriously off topic, but tis been burning my guts for 2 weeks now.

Im graduating in 2 months :thumbsup: and boy is it gonna rule :drool:
But im hunting er looking for a grad escort, i got a girl pinned, but im afraid of the answer.

I know her well and all but im nervous and thats killing me.

Any advice all knowing spfers?

 

[farting bob]

well, i dont know about you, but if it were me and she isnt intersted in anybody else, go for it.
whats the worse that can happen? well i suppose she could say no and your graduation would be ruined, but apart from that, whats the worst that could happen?

 

[dark_novastar]

true

shes single and i got somebody whos willing to do it for me if this doesnt fall thru. Thx Bob for the feedabck, all i needed

 

[FrolfFreak]

I kind of agree with farting bob here. If it's been burning your gut for two weeks, it's been held off too long already. Go and take a chance!

-FF

 

[Pucho]

go go go!
there is no point waiting

 

[Muffassa]

Make sure you let us know how it goes!

mmmm, asking out women - it is the most nerve racking heart pounding, hands sweaty, de-oderant not working, need a breath mint, moment of any males life. Isn't it strange that women can draw such strange and foreign emotions from us manly male types - I mean honestly, sports cant do this for you. Computer games (no matter how big a rush) can never come close to the feeling of asking a woman to spend the day/evening with you (for the first time) or the rest of their life with you (engagement).

I feel very lucky that I have the woman of my dreams already - but part of me would really like to be able to go through those moments again with her -they are great after all.

Going home to a roommate after an awesome date and bragging about the great time you had out dancing or just sitting on a park bench for an hour watching the stars on a summer night...

Anyway, have a great time! - congrats on the graduating, and ignore my rambelings as they probably don't apply anyway.
:buddies:

 

[Solo]

What exactly are you waiting for, fool :lol:

 

[beau_nidle]

I agree with the general concensus here, you gotta ask her, if you don't you'll always regret it.

Ask her to go with you and if she says no, at least you know then and can more on to all the other women in the world

Let us know what she says, good luck mate!!

 

[N'thraXX]

Make sure you let us know how it goes!

mmmm, asking out women - it is the most nerve racking heart pounding, hands sweaty, de-oderant not working, need a breath mint, moment of any males life. Isn't it strange that women can draw such strange and foreign emotions from us manly male types - I mean honestly, sports cant do this for you. Computer games (no matter how big a rush) can never come close to the feeling of asking a woman to spend the day/evening with you (for the first time) or the rest of their life with you (engagement).

I feel very lucky that I have the woman of my dreams already - but part of me would really like to be able to go through those moments again with her -they are great after all.

Going home to a roommate after an awesome date and bragging about the great time you had out dancing or just sitting on a park bench for an hour watching the stars on a summer night...

Anyway, have a great time! - congrats on the graduating, and ignore my rambelings as they probably don't apply anyway.
:buddies:

..you lucky bastard! :lol:

 

[Shade]

I agree with the general concensus here, you gotta ask her, if you don't you'll always regret it.

I agree with this based on empirical data.

Good luck, hope it all goes well for you :thumbsup:

 

[Cauthon]

Life's too short, man. Take it from a guy who knows from experience - ask; you don't want the regret of not asking to stay with you to burn a hole in your gut.

If she says no, its disappointment for a while; if you never ask, it's never ever knowing what could have happened...

 

[Uzziah]

I never dated a girl I didn't ask out.

What's the worse that could happen her say no?

Just a tip though you may wanna ask her to go out before hand, say to a movie or party, anything but a formal event on a first date. Freaky wierd things happen when you go to a formal event on a first date.

 

[CheekyJez]

If you are good friends with her then it might be better to ask her to the graduation as a friend... you can still have a lot of fun, spend time with her, and see where it goes... but she's less likely to say no. To be honest it depends on whether you want to be dating her full stop, or whether you want her company for this one night.

 

[Almighty Cow]

Yeah, man. Go for it.

Gotta wonder though...asking for relationship advice from a gaming forum... What were you thinking?:uhhuh:

Kidding, kidding. :lol:

 

[dark_novastar]

well..

its called second opinions guys
well here i go!
report back later
Oh and others might call it drama!
Will she say yes or no? :lol:

 

[Neely022]

She's probably going to say yes... I mean, there's a lot of girls out there who simply can't turn a guy down (especially not for a harmless date). There's a BUNCH of girls like that. As a matter of fact, every girl I've ever dated..... dag, yo.

 

[Kremtok]

Sorry to be the only one to offer something negative, but I have to mention something that I learned from my own experience: Make sure she's not in every picture.

 

[jmcmahon24]

I seriously think this post needed a poll, or maybe even two polls:

1. Should I ask her?

and the results for this appear to be a resounding 100% yes.

2. Will she say yes?

answer to be posted soon

You have to do it though. It hurts if she says no. But it feels so good when she says yes.

 

[Dacar92]

Ask her! You've got to. That seems to be the consensus here from the "all-knowing SFPers".

Boy, I have been married so long, that I think I forget how to "ask her"!

Let us know what she says. And how you asked her!