Bored or Lonely? Scenario 1: I'm with the perfect girl but I feel that I've already achieved everything I've ever wanted in life (all I've ever wanted was to be with that perfect girl). As a result, I have absolutely no goals to reach for, making me really bored. (Unfortunately, I don't have any academic interest or interest in any possible job or anything else. Basically, when I get home I pace back and forth because even TV and computer don't quite cut it anymore). Scenario 2: I'm single and looking for action, I have goals (better job, more money to allow for a better selection of girls), and things to strive/reach for (such as finding that perfect girl). Which one do you choose? Why? Is this an age based decision? I feel that at an older age, Scenario 1 is definitely a winner, but while I'm 22, I really don't know.