Aww damnit

Mecal

Diabloii.Net Member
Aww damnit

So....
This girl i like, i was gonna hang out with her this weekend, but she was really tired/busy, so i didnt.
Today rolls around, and what do i find out?

she's probably gonna get back together with her Ex.
and of course, JUST when i was thinking of asking her out.

So, do i Tell her, and see what happens? (which i probably will).
or should i wait and see what happens?


:undecided:

I'll probably tell her this week.
but i wanted to see what you folks had to say.
 

caddad

Diabloii.Net Member
I'd tell her as soon as you can for two reasons.

First off, if you don't you'll regret not making the move.

Second, if she was the source of the "getting with the ex" info, she could be playing you to see if you make a move and show interest or she could seriously want to get with the ex.

Either way, relax the pucker factor and be honest with yourself and her. Whichever way she goes at least you'll know outright and that's infinitely better than not knowing.

-D2netDad
 

Isolde212

Banned
As much as I want to say go for it which I think you should, I would also be wary of getting involved with a girl who still has eyes for her ex. That's just my opinion, use your own discretion of course.
 

Mecal

Diabloii.Net Member
good points both of you.
and D2nD, while I always consider the possiblility that it might be a 'test' - in my experience its never the case.
so while i think of it as an option, i dont get my hopes up.

but yes, either way, I will regret it if i dont.
I'll go up to her room tonight, and inquire.
 

Ariadne

Diabloii.Net Member
As much as I want to say go for it which I think you should, I would also be wary of getting involved with a girl who still has eyes for her ex. That's just my opinion, use your own discretion of course.
One I share. "going back to your ex" is usually (not always!) an act of weakness, usually done by women who don't like being alone, or just remember the good moments of the past relationship (and convienantly forget about the bad ones).
I said usually, not always.



 

Quietus

Diabloii.Net Member
One I share. "going back to your ex" is usually (not always!) an act of weakness, usually done by women who don't like being alone, or just remember the good moments of the past relationship (and convienantly forget about the bad ones).
I said usually, not always.
That's not limited to women, I assure you. Personal experience. :smiley:

That said - rough situation, Mecal. I'm afraid that my own personal experience isn't thorough enough to know what I would do in your situation, so I can't give any advice. I can, however, wish you good luck.



 
Go for it, either you have no chance at all of getting a date by not saying anything or have some chance of a date by asking her.


Just do it.
 

Mecal

Diabloii.Net Member
That said - rough situation, Mecal. I'm afraid that my own personal experience isn't thorough enough to know what I would do in your situation, so I can't give any advice. I can, however, wish you good luck.
thx.

Yeah, I'm going tonight.

I'll tell ya how it all goes :scratch:


edit: 2444 posts! it must be lucky? :fortuneteller: :tongue:



 

Mecal

Diabloii.Net Member
It's amazing how many problems girls cause. Amazing. :shocked:

I know, you're tellin' me.

Anyways, i went over today.
but she had a friend over. :sad2:
so i cant really do much when she's with a friend.

I'll have to wait till tomorrow.
Meanwhile, I'll contemplate :brainiac: :idea:



 

Module88

Diabloii.Net Member
It's really quite simple, he bats every girl that comes near him because they wear bras. The lawsuits and police visits make his life complicated and hard.
You ever get handcuffed with a bra? That's seriously ****ed up. Seriously. I think the police are mocking me. :laugh:



 
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