Am I stalker?

Souther

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Am I stalker?

I've known this girl in my accounting class for atleast 8 weeks now and I think she is hot. Sometimes we talk before and after class. I really like being with this girl, she is smart and good looking.

So I decided to give her a ride in my car and take her home. She happly accepted my offer. I starting asking what she was majoring in college and what not. Then I talking about myself alittle like what schools I went, food I like and what kind of person I was. When we finally arrived at her place she got out and slowly closed the door. She started walking backwards slowly while still facing me.

The whole time i was jabbering in the car, I never stoped to ask her for directions on where she lived. I'm not a stalker am I?
 

Module88

Diabloii.Net Member
Souther said:
I've known this girl in my accounting class for atleast 8 weeks now and I think she is hot. Sometimes we talk before and after class. I really like being with this girl, she is smart and good looking.

So I decided to give her a ride in my car and take her home. She happly accepted my offer. I starting asking what she was majoring in college and what not. Then I talking about myself alittle like what schools I went, food I like and what kind of person I was. When we finally arrived at her place she got out and slowly closed the door. She started walking backwards slowly while still facing me.

The whole time i was jabbering in the car, I never stoped to ask her for directions on where she lived. I'm not a stalker am I?
You didn't walk her to the door? Hell, even I know you're supposed to do that. And that says something. :laughing:
 

diablo loves donutz

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Module88 said:
You didn't walk her to the door? Hell, even I know you're supposed to do that. And that says something. :laughing:

Well it depends, if you drop her off and the door to her house is 10 feet away, then walking her to the door makes you look like a complete dumbass :thumbsup:
 

MadMachine

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I guess if you didn't stop talking about yourself the whole time she may have thought you were a bit wierd.

But on the other hand, what did she look like when she when she was backing away? Smiling or what?
 

Module88

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diablo loves donutz said:
Well it depends, if you drop her off and the door to her house is 10 feet away, then walking her to the door makes you look like a complete dumbass :thumbsup:
.......... Have you been on a date before? (Coming from me, that questions really means something)
 

Rolland

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Souther said:
The whole time i was jabbering in the car, I never stoped to ask her for directions on where she lived. I'm not a stalker am I?
So...how DID you know where she lived?

lol

That's the question, and what the OP is actually asking about imo heh

Are you a stalker because you "already" knew where she lived?

Don't know...did you follow her home from a distance one day?

:wink3:
 

Stompwampa

Diabloii.Net Member
how did you know where she lived then? I would be a little creeped out by that too...


Have you talked to her since? Does she act stand-offish to you now?
 

Rolland

Diabloii.Net Member
He wasn't on a "date" lol

He just took her home after a class...not to be mean, but you guys did read the OP's post right?

He "already" knew where she lived...talked to whole time to her in the car and never asked her for directions. Which she may of realized once they pulled up (that he already knew her address)

Thus he's asking...Am I a stalker because I had already (somehow) found out where she lived?

If he followed her...what would you call it?

Curiosity?

;)
 

MadMachine

Diabloii.Net Member
I blame my not reading it correctly for it not being a very interesting post. It needs more 'adult content' to interest me.

Anyway. Yeah, you're a pretty crazy guy. How'd you find out where she lived then?
 

Module88

Diabloii.Net Member
Rolland said:
He wasn't on a "date" lol

He just took her home after a class...not to be mean, but you guys did read the OP's post right?

He "already" knew where she lived...talked to whole time to her in the car and never asked her for directions. Which she may of realized once they pulled up (that he already knew her address)

Thus he's asking...Am I a stalker because I had already (somehow) found out where she lived?

If he followed her...what would you call it?

Curiosity?

;)
Yeah, he should have definitely walked her to the door. Now he's just gonna look creepy. -_-'
 

MadMachine

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Module88 said:
Yeah, he should have definitely walked her to the door. Now he's just gonna look creepy. -_-'
Yeah, maybe she was waiting for him to get out and come up with her. :afro:
 

PatMaGroin

Diabloii.Net Member
Rolland said:
He wasn't on a "date" lol

Thus he's asking...Am I a stalker because I had already (somehow) found out where she lived?
Winner.

I've seen this a lot, its a common joke.
 

Rolland

Diabloii.Net Member
Module88 said:
Yeah, he should have definitely walked her to the door. Now he's just gonna look creepy. -_-'
I'm sorry...but that's not the point.

The question is "Am I a stalker?"

THAT depends on how he knew where she lived. Had she mentioned it at some point over the 8 weeks when they talked together? Did a mutual friend know where she lived and let him know...

Or did one day after class, did he decide to see where she lived (or where she was going atm) and followed her from a distance without her knowing?

If he did that, then in that instance he was "stalking" her. IMO

Now that might not make him a complete ***, might of been just a spur of the moment bad decision. Depends on his past history and actions.

A good clue that he knows he was in the wrong is that he's asking about it now.

So yea...if you did that it's stalking. Don't do it. heh

If you want to know where someone lives talk to them and ask them, don't follow them around. :shocked:

Regards,

Rolland :cool:
 

Rolland

Diabloii.Net Member
PatMaGroin said:
Winner.

I've seen this a lot, its a common joke.
Not sure what you mean Pat? heh

The post is a joke?

If so that's cool...just killing time DL'ing some tunes, getting ready to kill some badies in Act4 NM :thumbsup:
 

Souther

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No, it was not a date. I simply asked her if she wanted a ride home. Since she accepted my offer, im guessing she might have felt comfortable about me.

About the part where I already knew where she lived, well this girl lives about ten blocks away from me. I saw her come out of her house on my way to work. I honestly did not know if that was her house or not but i got lucky when i droped her off.

The facial expression was an awkward look with a smile. I don't know if you can picture that but i tried my best to remember how she look.

p.s. I told this to my friend and he started laughing calling me a stalker. Anyways, i dont think i am.
 
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