Accused of rape
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Bortaz
Banned
And he hasn't tried to abandon his child by committing suicide. Hypocrites suck.
Great post, KoW, and kudos for saying what needed to be said (and not making toader or me say it again).
Amra
Diabloii.Net Member
There are things going on that you don't know about.
Everyone needs to chill out a bit and understand that none of us knows all that is going on with each other.
Granted, we can only go with certain information that is put before us but understand that may not be complete.
HAMC8112
Diabloii.Net Member
It is probably better to smooth things out, the kids do not need to suffer because the parents are fighting.
Dondrei
Diabloii.Net Member
Muggers have mohawks, paedophiles have long, thin grey hair or bald spots.
It'd be nice and long by now if I hadn't had to lose it to get a job this year.
It wasn't that long at the time, maybe five inches near the end when it was finally starting to look good. And then it was gone. *sob*
Hey, me too you bastard.
Nah, don't like the short ones.
DurfBarian
Diabloii.Net Member
I pity the fool who don't know about T's 'hawk density
pizzaul
Diabloii.Net Member
I am a child of a very smooth divorce. My parents knew they needed to separate, and wanted in no way to make it a burden on myself, or my sister. They settled their interests, and were there for us both. We are a special case.
Most divorces involve material, and also custody struggle, if there are children involved in the equation. If it were a perfect world, bad marriages (first of all wouldn't happen, but if they did) would dissipate with as much cooperation as possible, like the last heave-ho. But it's not. Usually people are bitter, angry, resentful, and self-righteous (especially those who have no right to be). Many divorces are catalyzed by the fact that parental decisions are conflicted; one parent believes that their child should be raised in one way (in essence, they believe that life should be a certain way and try to produce that type of reality in their own family structure), and the 'opposing' parent believes quite differently - differences like this are sometimes manageable without children, but add a child into the mix and the differences of opinion on how life and family 'should' be are practically impossible to ignore. If compromise can't be reached, then a nasty divorce often follows, with both parents vying for control so that they may raise the child in what they believe to be the "right" way.
Like I said, I haven't been tracking what's been happening in Smeg's life here on diabloii.net, and even if I were then I would take everything he says with a grain of salt simply because he's who-knows-where, and posting his personal life issues on a video game forum - not that I'm saying that's bad, but just that I can't take your word as solid gold truth simply because you're on the other side of the internet.
But from what I see, it seems as if Smeg is doing what he believes is best for his child. It's obvious his ex is loopy, and does not have their child's best interests in mind with the decisions she is making - if she were, she would try to put aside the BS and separate smoothly. That having been said, and with all the crazy stunts she's pulling, wouldn't most people agree that she is unfit to raise children? Mental instability - not a good parenting trait.
I don't know, I'm sort of drifting here... pretty much my point is that divorces aren't always pretty. It's easy to sit outside the glass and say that what's happening should be a certain way, but every relationship is different, and it sounds like this battle is worth fighting. If Smeg really believes that by gaining custody he is working for his son's best interests, then he should do it. But if that is his stance, then it must take into account that the struggle itself will cause severe strain on his son. Is it better than letting the crazy ex have her way? That's a decision he needs to make, and it sounds like he's already made it.
Nobody's perfect. But I salute you, sir, for doing your best, if that is what you do.
Just remember, the conflict with your wife is exactly that - WITH YOUR WIFE. Don't try to make your son take sides, don't use him as a weapon against her, don't make decisions based on what .you. want. Not saying you do, I just see it all the time...
Props, man.
ps:
why the hell did you get involved with a crazy braud in the first place?
pss:
ever seen the Mr T chia pet? That's right, GROW THE MOHAWK YOURSELF
Most divorces involve material, and also custody struggle, if there are children involved in the equation. If it were a perfect world, bad marriages (first of all wouldn't happen, but if they did) would dissipate with as much cooperation as possible, like the last heave-ho. But it's not. Usually people are bitter, angry, resentful, and self-righteous (especially those who have no right to be). Many divorces are catalyzed by the fact that parental decisions are conflicted; one parent believes that their child should be raised in one way (in essence, they believe that life should be a certain way and try to produce that type of reality in their own family structure), and the 'opposing' parent believes quite differently - differences like this are sometimes manageable without children, but add a child into the mix and the differences of opinion on how life and family 'should' be are practically impossible to ignore. If compromise can't be reached, then a nasty divorce often follows, with both parents vying for control so that they may raise the child in what they believe to be the "right" way.
Like I said, I haven't been tracking what's been happening in Smeg's life here on diabloii.net, and even if I were then I would take everything he says with a grain of salt simply because he's who-knows-where, and posting his personal life issues on a video game forum - not that I'm saying that's bad, but just that I can't take your word as solid gold truth simply because you're on the other side of the internet.
But from what I see, it seems as if Smeg is doing what he believes is best for his child. It's obvious his ex is loopy, and does not have their child's best interests in mind with the decisions she is making - if she were, she would try to put aside the BS and separate smoothly. That having been said, and with all the crazy stunts she's pulling, wouldn't most people agree that she is unfit to raise children? Mental instability - not a good parenting trait.
I don't know, I'm sort of drifting here... pretty much my point is that divorces aren't always pretty. It's easy to sit outside the glass and say that what's happening should be a certain way, but every relationship is different, and it sounds like this battle is worth fighting. If Smeg really believes that by gaining custody he is working for his son's best interests, then he should do it. But if that is his stance, then it must take into account that the struggle itself will cause severe strain on his son. Is it better than letting the crazy ex have her way? That's a decision he needs to make, and it sounds like he's already made it.
Nobody's perfect. But I salute you, sir, for doing your best, if that is what you do.
Just remember, the conflict with your wife is exactly that - WITH YOUR WIFE. Don't try to make your son take sides, don't use him as a weapon against her, don't make decisions based on what .you. want. Not saying you do, I just see it all the time...
Props, man.
ps:
why the hell did you get involved with a crazy braud in the first place?
pss:
ever seen the Mr T chia pet? That's right, GROW THE MOHAWK YOURSELF
Re: Accused of rape
Suing for rape or libel is hard, because you need to be able to prove what someone is saying is a lie I think. So, even if you're innocent until proven guilty, to actually prove you didn't rape her you'd need to provide concrete evidence that you were not where she said you were. Like for example, if you were overseas serving in the army when she said it happened, that's bulletproof. Most people don't document their lives so well to do that though
Suing for rape or libel is hard, because you need to be able to prove what someone is saying is a lie I think. So, even if you're innocent until proven guilty, to actually prove you didn't rape her you'd need to provide concrete evidence that you were not where she said you were. Like for example, if you were overseas serving in the army when she said it happened, that's bulletproof. Most people don't document their lives so well to do that though
Dirty_Zulu
Diabloii.Net Member
Re: Accused of rape
Something on your mind?
Did you search old threads with keywords like rape and pedophiles?Suing for rape or libel is hard, because you need to be able to prove what someone is saying is a lie I think. So, even if you're innocent until proven guilty, to actually prove you didn't rape her you'd need to provide concrete evidence that you were not where she said you were. Like for example, if you were overseas serving in the army when she said it happened, that's bulletproof. Most people don't document their lives so well to do that though
Something on your mind?
BAMFSpecialOps
Diabloii.Net Member
Re: Accused of rape
The last line in his post makes ya wonder...
The last line in his post makes ya wonder...
mince pies
Diabloii.Net Member
Re: Accused of rape
Would you like to share any more of your notions on rape/paedophilia or are you done resurrecting dodgy threads?
AeroJonesy
Diabloii.Net Member
Re: Accused of rape
You've been watching way too much TV...
You can't sue for rape - it's a crime, not a civil offense
You aren't innocent until proven guilty in civil court. There is no guilt.
Also not true.
You've been watching way too much TV...
Dutchman
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Re: Accused of rape
Dutch
Explain wrongful death to me then? Is there no such thing as wrongful sex that makes suing an option as assinine as suing for murder?
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