Accused of rape

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

"Me? Have sex? Okay..." :laugh:

She'd tie you up with a bra first

 

[BAMFSpecialOps]

well assuming that its not true, i honestly wouldn't be to worried about it, because the people around u will know its not, and obviously she is just tryin to start something to hurt u, yea it can be bad but a lawyer is about the only thing, unless u wanna be a kid and say somethin about her, personally id just talk to her about it if its not true you could possible persuade her into stopping.

 

[Cheesehed]

well assuming that its not true, i honestly wouldn't be to worried about it, because the people around u will know its not, and obviously she is just tryin to start something to hurt u, yea it can be bad but a lawyer is about the only thing, unless u wanna be a kid and say somethin about her, personally id just talk to her about it if its not true you could possible persuade her into stopping.

I wouldnt try to reason with a person like that, theres an old saying "never argue with an idiot, theyll drag you down to their level and beat you with expierience". Not to mention that jurys and police always assume youre guilty in a rape case if youre a man. Id go to the police after talking to a lawyer.

 

[AeroJonesy]

The police aren't going to do anything. Talk to your lawyer, lay out all the facts, and figure out where to go from there.

 

[maccool]

If there was a woman running around saying you had raped her yet she refuses to press charges, what would you do?

Not solicit advice from a public forum while I was in the middle of a divorce. And certainly not tell the public forum the identity of the woman.

Learn to hypothetical, dumbass.

 

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

It doesn't matter if she reads this. So far nobody has come up with anything that's making a lot of sense anyway other than talk to my attorney. I've done that already. This is more to get the others to think about what could be.

Or you can be a snarky dumbass and not think.

 

[maccool]

I'll take snarky 8 days a week. Sure beats what you got.

 

[Monopoly]

well. if she cant prove it, like in cientific testing, there aint realy a lot to worry about.
i'd just say that she can come back when she gets some evidence, and we can take it in coart from there
(i know there was a lot of misspelled words in there)

 

[WildBerry]

I'll take snarky 8 days a week. Sure beats what you got.

What exactly do you see him having?

 

[LonghornRob]

I couldn't imagine caring about someone spreading rumors against me. If I am innocent then I would just laugh it off.

 

[Yaboosh]

That is ridiculous. You wouldn't care if somebody convinced other people about you being a horrible person? The fact that you aren't a horrible person becomes mostly irrelevant if those around you believe you to be a horrible person.

It is all well and good that you are so able to laugh off something like this, but it just isn't practical. I assure you, if somebody was able to convince people around you that you were a rapist, you would not be able to just laugh it off. Ask the Duke Lacrosse folks.

 

[The Cow King]

I would takl to the person who's spearing the rumours

If that doesnt work then kill her cat, or sometin similar

 

[Dondrei]

Gee, I wonder what would discourage her from pressing charges.

I'd do something about the "I'm a rapist" facial hair and hat for a start.

 

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

Gee, I wonder what would discourage her from pressing charges.

I verified what AJ said. What she's claiming isn't even a crime. All she has are lies. That works in my favor in so many ways.

I'd do something about the "I'm a rapist" facial hair and hat for a start.

Knowing about your porn collection and refusal to post a pic of yourself one might wonder if you're qualified to say such a thing.

 

[SQUATMAN]

I would use that against her to gain full custody of the children. She is obviously delusional.

 

[toader]

Knowing about your porn collection and refusal to post a pic of yourself one might wonder if you're qualified to say such a thing.

Well, from all descriptions of those who have seen him, we know he has the pedo-cut going.

 

[TakeMyCrabs]

Good news about double jeopardy..

 

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

Well, from all descriptions of those who have seen him, we know he has the pedo-cut going.

It's the pedosmile that gets them every time.

 

[zodiac66]

Did you report her to the police for trying to get you killed?

Her allegations may not be a chargeable crime, but I do wonder what the family court judge will think. I do believe that is the angle she is going for.

It baffles me how two adults can go to such lengths to try to get custody. People like that make me think they are fighting over some intangible object instead of a little one.

Before the ex and I split up, anyone could feel the animosity and anger in the house. When I finally said the relationship was not going to work out, it was like the weight of the world was lifted off of everyone's shoulders. We are now, *gasp*, friends. Neither one of us viewed children as an object, but as a being who needed both parents who could get along and make their lives special.

I do get upset that he doesn't visit as much as he should, but he does what he can.

I hope you both go through some serious counseling for your child.

I get the impression that both of you are out to "win" custody. That is wrong. No one wins in that kind of situation. Everyone, including the child, looses.

Both of you need to grow up and think of your son.

 

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

Did you report her to the police for trying to get you killed?

No evidence other than my word and that's not going to get anything started. Unless somebody does wreck my car or makes an attempt in person, there's nothing that can be done.

Her allegations may not be a chargeable crime, but I do wonder what the family court judge will think. I do believe that is the angle she is going for.

This isn't the first time she's claimed rape. I'm research the past claims further than I did before.

It baffles me how two adults can go to such lengths to try to get custody. People like that make me think they are fighting over some intangible object instead of a little one.

I think for her it's being done to hurt me more than anything. I just want to give the rugrat a good home. I'll be damned if I don't fight like hell to ensure he has a good home. If I fail, at least he'll always know that I did my best. One day he'll understand why.

Before the ex and I split up, anyone could feel the animosity and anger in the house. When I finally said the relationship was not going to work out, it was like the weight of the world was lifted off of everyone's shoulders. We are now, *gasp*, friends. Neither one of us viewed children as an object, but as a being who needed both parents who could get along and make their lives special.

She doesn't see it that way. I'm not important. I'm everything bad mean nasty ugly and evil in the world. In her mind I'm the one that caused this. She didn't do a damned thing. Delusional would be a polite way to say it.

I do get upset that he doesn't visit as much as he should, but he does what he can.

That's good. Right now I have serious concerns for the rugrat's health and safety over there. He's ALWAYS sick there. He has nightmares if the sleeps on the same floor as his pervert uncle.

I hope you both go through some serious counseling for your child.

In the works. We're trying to hash out who he's going to go to.

I get the impression that both of you are out to "win" custody. That is wrong. No one wins in that kind of situation. Everyone, including the child, looses.

Both of you need to grow up and think of your son.

I am thinking of him. That's why I'm fighting for custody. I haven't even come close to scratching the surface of all the crap that's being pulled right now. I'll leave it at they wanted a girl, not a boy. They're trying to do just that.